To be clear, being blunt doesn't mean being rude or oblivious to your feelings.

It simply means stating the issue in
an effort to correct or solve the problem & move forward. Most blunt people are the way that they are because they stick to one of their core values: being honest. They're honest with themselves and
with other people. What can look
like rudeness and disrespect are actually coming from a place of care.

...There are hard truths that
        we have to face in life...        fxpicasso


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Let me give you a lesson on ,,Thinking".

,,Let me think about it" is the most commonly used statement of the coward. When they say this sentence, they aren’t referring to ACTUALLY thinking.
‍They just want to delay making certain decisions. Because they’re afraid.
They aren’t talking about thoroughly processing all the information they possess to make an informed and intelligent decision.

The coward doesn’t think.
The coward ,,thinks".
He lies to himself and to others,
when he says ,,,I'll think about it" he really means ,,I’m afraid to make a decision". He will ask for time that will be expertly wasted, less than 1% of which was actually used to process information and cognate a decision

A grandmaster looks at a chessboard with nearly infinite possibilities, analyzing & processing every scenario which may lead to CERTAIN DESTRUCTION...
and he still comes to a decision faster than you. You’ve been ,,thinking" about whether you should try that new business idea for 3 months. He’s decided to go down variation 94 after analyzing
500 different paths in under 3 minutes.

The grandmaster thinks
I think

You “think”
And that’s why you are where you are.
No decision takes more than 1 hour of actual thinking.